If you want to make it so that your man will never want “having sex with himself” to be the preferred option then you need to communicate with his sexual mind via dirty talk.
Learn the power of talking dirty by watching this video. It may be removed soon so don’t miss out. You might learn something that will change your life.
If you aren’t having this type of sex maybe you should consider talking dirty to your man. If that sounds embarrassing or awkward then watch this video made by a housewife who thought the same until she discovered the power of saying the right words at the right time.